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How can you fit exercise into a busy schedule?

MATTHEW ALLEWAY • October 20, 2021
My background - Its not easy, but you can do it!
Before becoming a personal trainer, I worked in demanding corporate jobs in the City, involving commuting and international travel, and balanced this with family life and having three children. I always found time for my health and fitness, including taking on challenges, and I completed triathlons, Ironman, multiple endurance running events including ultras. 

You don't have to take on a challenge, but my point is if I can balance corporate and family life and do an Ironman, then you can get to the gym and find time for cardio exercise as well.

My motto was always work on yourself first before you go to work for someone else. A lot of my colleagues didn’t, and would always say they didn’t have time, followed by a list of reasons why they couldn’t exercise. Consequently, they often also struggled with stress, relationship issues, and health problems.

Drill a bit deeper and these same people had time for other activities, but they weren’t prioritising their health and fitness. Its always easier to find time to do something easy, watch TV, look at your phone, stay in the office a bit longer when you probably don’t need to, go for a few drinks after work.

Introduction
Finding time for exercise can mean getting outside in the cold or getting yourself to the gym. Its not easy, but it will transform your life for the better. So what's stopping you and how can you incorporate exercise into your life and balance with work and other demands.

Ask yourself?  
So, if you thinking how can I fit exercise into my life, why can’t I be consistent with my exercise, ask yourself first: What’s going to make you feel best? What’s going to make you a better parent/spouse? What’s going to make you more successful in your career and balance stress?

Then ask what’s stopping me? What are my blockers? Write them down and challenge these perceptions and be creative how you can mitigate them.

So how can you get started and make exercise part of your life?

1. Set Goals - 'Goals are your North star they help determine your direction'.
They are your starting point, and need to include all aspects of your life, family, work, as well as fitness and health.

Divide your Goals up into long term, mid-term (3-5 years), short terms: one year, and then by month. Set goals that are your Targets, ones you want to Maintain, make them challenging but achievable. Also distinguish ones that are Dreams i.e., a goal that you want to achieve, however is not entirely something within your control. Put a time frame or date on the ones that are time dependent. 

2. Have a plan - 'A goal without a plan is just a wish'. 
To achieve your goals you need a plan, its no-good waking up without a plan to exercise, your just stay in bed. Your plan needs to span several months, and then be broken down each week and auctioned for each day. Sure, plans change, and you need to be ready to adapt if you want to hit your goals.

3. Get up Early - 'Discipline is doing what needs to be done when you don’t want to do it’.
Maybe you do this already? Or you exercise in the evenings, and it works, so you can ignore this! 

Or you reading this saying I don’t do mornings? Sorry to dispel the myth, however I believe we can all do mornings, I don’t think there is any magic about why some people get up early and exercise and those that can’t. It’s just accepting that it’s not easy, forming a new habit, making a lifestyle change. You don’t have to sacrifice sleep, but you probably need to go to bed earlier!

The reality is its easy to go to bed late, and its harder to get up early, again it’s not easy - but it is possible – you can do it.

When my kids were young, I realised that going for a run after work, meant not supporting my wife, missing bath time and reading with my kids. So, I started going to bed earlier, setting my alarm earlier, and exercising before work and when my kids were up (well most of the time when they were very young!).

4. Schedule recovery/rest
Any exercise plan must have recovery and rest, so this needs to be part of any training plan. Recovery allows your body to adapt and avoid burn out. The harder your train the more you need to ensure you have time for recovery.

5. Get organised
If you are going to the gym early in the morning, get all your kit ready the night before, and the same if you’re going after work in the evening. If you’re going for a run in the morning, you want to get up and go before the negative part of your brain questions is this a good idea!

Coming back to your plan, organise the day/time when you’re going to exercise in advance. If it needs to change due to a work commitment e.g., business travel, ask your self can you exercise when your away.

I traveled all around the world in my corporate career, and I hardly ever missed a run, just take your trainers and kit. That run will clear your head for that presentation or tough meeting.

Summary:
Choosing the easy option doesn’t benefit you, taking the harder option does. If it’s easy it’s probably not going to be good for you! The harder option is harder at first, its uncomfortable, accept it's not easy, pursue, then before you know it, it will become a habit and part of your lifestyle. 

If you prioritise your health and fitness, it will make you feel better, your have more energy and mental clarity, it will make you a better parent/spouse/colleague, help to manage stress, and ultimately your be more successful in your career.

If you need help to set health and fitness goals, create a training plan, improve your diet, and incorporate training into your schedule, please contact me for a free consultation.



By MATTHEW ALLEWAY April 11, 2024
Introduction: 8 months ago, I was contacted by a lady as follows: “I'm looking to find a suitable trainer for my best friend and husba nd who live locally in Reigate and are both new to exercise in their 40s, needing to lose weight, change their lifestyle and kickstart their fitness journeys. They would like to train as a couple as they have the same goals (weight loss, injury prevention, both totally new to any kind of exercise, need to protect dodgy knees). The lady turned out to be a very good friend of clients C and A who I subsequently contacted, and we went from there. 1. Goal Setting: I then met with C and A over a coffee to confirm their goals. Which were both to get to a healthy weight, then maintain that, build strength, gain some gym confidence, increase their energy levels, and to get a fitness habit going. Their most significant goal was the realisation that they needed improve their health so they could be around for their kids. 2. Assessment: To get started, I asked some more questions on their fitness background, lifestyle and nutrition habits. C use to do ballet as a child, and A has played rugby and football, and has had knee problems from two ACL injuries on the same leg, resulting in surgery. I took some basic measurements using body composition scales to set a baseline. I then completed a functional movement assessment in the gym, that use for all my new clients. Using Cook and Burtons Functional Movement Screen. This captures seven key fundamental movement tests that require a balance of mobility and stability. This is to observe their ability to perform basic mobility and stability movements by placing clients in positions were weakness, imbalances, limitations can be determined. 3. Training Plan: Fr om their assessment I designed their training program, phase 1 being to build a solid fitness foundation. We started with one in person strength and conditioning training session per week, starting with mobility work, then exercises to strengthen the full body, including core specific exercises, plus conditioning work (Including interval training) to improve cardiovascular health and power. Finishing with static stretching to improve their flexibility. The style of training was functional fitness that supports and mimics everyday life. It includes movements such as pushing, pulling, bending, squatting, twisting, reaching, lunging, and core. From phase 1, I continued to progress their program from a mixture of body weight exercises and free weights e.g. dumbbells, kettlebells, to where we are today and now comfortably using barbells. My training plans have a strong emphasis on progression, good form, and technique to ensure the client is safe and doesn’t encounter unnecessary soreness or worse injury. 4. Nutrition and lifestyle Plan: I provided a self-learning healthy lifestyle course. Comprised of four phases as below. The emphasis on eating a balanced healthy diet, taking an overall pragmatic approach, and in addition ensuring other key factors e.g. including daily movement, sufficient sleep, and water consumption. Phase 1: Calories and Tracking Phase 2: Nutritional Balance Phase 3: Good and bad Food? Phase 4: Movement, Sleep & Water I provided both C and A with daily calorie targets calculated based on their basal metabolic rate and average exercise activity, and finally a sensible calorie deficit. In addition, I also calculated a daily protein target. They used the user-friendly App. Nutracheck to help track calories. The emphasis being to reward good behaviour. In addition, C worked on her cardio fitness in spin classes and my run strong couch to 5k program. A worked on increasing his daily movement, patiently listening to me constantly talking about steps! 5. Implementation: I modified the program at the beginning to minimise the impact and stress on A’s knee, so for the lower body less squatting and lunging movements and more focus on hinge movements. My training sessions are based on 6-week cycles to ensure consistency and progress with the exercise. Then training sessions were updated based on their progress and my ongoing movement assessments during a session. Client feedback from regular reviews to discuss goals and progress was built into each training cycle e.g. both asked to go a bit heavier with their weights, which is feedback I love to hear, as its not me pushing the client, there pushing themselves. 6. Monitoring and Progress Tracking: I track the weekly training metrics such as sets, reps, weight, and time, to ensure gradual progression. We measured weight every 2 weeks, informally, and not obsessively to track progress. We discussed, defined, and tracked habits in our regular catch ups outside of the gym. 7. Challenges and Solutions: Time challenges were what you would expect for a busy professional couple with two children to care for. Personal Training is a partnership and collaboration between personal trainer and client, and flexibility on both sides ensured consistent training. Life events presented a challenge, for example during the Christmas period exercise and calorie counting was slightly put on hold, resulting in a slight increase in weight. I was not concerned about this at all and was pleased that they both relaxed with their family and enjoyed Christmas. Straight after this they had the discipline to get back on track. 8. Results: Results have been incredible! Both C and A are getting stronger and fitter every week. They’re now very comfortably performing advanced exercises. A’s strength has improved considerably, performing exercises with excellent form with barbells. He’s considerably more flexible, and his cardiovascular ability has gone from very out of breath to easily performing a 1000m row in under 5 mins. Consequently, he has much more energy in and out of the gym. C, like A has improved considerably in all areas of strength, flexibility, and cardio. She has fully embraced the exercise habit, as well as our sessions she attends spin and yoga classes, and is very confident in the gym. She also finds a notable difference in managing stress and sleeping much better than before she started. I’ve left weight loss to last because this is the positive side effect of a healthy fitness program. But it’s been amazing, A has lost 20kg and C 9kg . The below graphs shows how they have lost weight slowly but consistently over time. Taking this long-term approach means habits are fully formed, and are sustainable.
By MATTHEW ALLEWAY September 22, 2022
Introduction It’s been almost a year since the infamous 35th edition of the MdS. So, I thought it would be timely, now the sand has settled, to give my perspective on the race challenges, my experience as a completer, what got me to the finish, why I loved every minute, and how for me it was life changing. The notorious MDS 35th Edition! Every edition of the MdS is special and has its own unique challenges, anyone that completes is amazing. It takes months of research, training, planning, organisation. You invest a lot financially to take part, so the cost barriers prevent a lot of people from taking part. However, once you’re in, the Mds is a great leveller! It counts for nothing what you’ve paid, you can have the best kit, hire a coach, sit in a heat chamber for 6 months, have the most expensive watch, but no one can do it for you, and when shit happens, you’re on your own. On the 35th edition this was never more apparent! October 2021 was unique in that due to COVID the event was scheduled and then subsequently cancelled three times before it eventually took place in October. Prior to this many dropped out rescheduling or requesting refunds. I trained four times in all for the event, so when I got to Morocco in October, I felt nothing but incredibly privileged to be there and there was no way I wasn’t completing. Secondly, it was extremely hot, well it is in the Sahara desert, so you would expect that! However, the temperatures were up to 42 degrees, so it was hotter than normal. I was in fact incredibly pleased, I thought that means I can say I completed the hottest very edition of the MdS! Finally, shit really did happen in 2021. A bug swept through the camp and hit everyone from competitors to the organisers, I only spoke to one person that didn’t experience the dreaded vomiting and diarrhoea. My experience in the field The first stage My first experience of the bug was in the first stage, I saw someone vomiting remarkably close to the start, and then I started having that sicky feeling. I continued trying to convince myself it was just in my head. This was further exacerbated by the boiling drinking water and salt tablets combination. Eventually, I succumbed and was sick several times. I managed to get to the end not feeling great, but enough in the tank to get over the line. This was only the beginning and these factors contributed to a rapid drop out of competitors. The second stage The second stage was the notorious sand dunes focused stage which includes a long and brutal stretch of dunes lasting 13km. I absolutely loved this stage, I managed to complete sick free, and was feeling good. However, the atmosphere in the camp was by now vastly different, a tragic death hit everyone hard, and the dropout rate was soaring, in my own tent alone a few didn’t finish and had dropped out. The Third stage Next was Stage 3 and I started with no problems. However, about 10k from the finish, the sickness returned. After a lot of vomiting, I got to the end. Unable to hold anything down and with the extreme heat, I was severely dehydrated. Keeping my after stage routine, I staggered to the famous Doc Trotters tent to clean up my feet, then send some emails to home, and noticing a very full medic tent. My mouth was drying up every few seconds, and I was struggling to drink water. After trying to eat I was quickly sick, so at 6pm I got in my sleeping bag, frequently sipping water, and then once it got dark, drinking bigger gulps as the water cooled and I started to feel better. As I lay there, more people were dropping out, in my tent we were now down to just three. I certainly wasn’t the only one who wasn’t feeling good, all night you could hear people vomiting and quickly getting out of their tents for a hasty toilet break in the sand. The Long Day The next morning I managed to eat a little dried mango. Not really great preparation for the stage 4 long day consisting of 50+ miles of sand dunes and a mountain thrown in for fun! Still there was no way I was stopping, just wasn’t sure how I was going to do it! Getting to the first couple of water stations were very tough, the heat was intense being the hottest part of the day and I was running on fumes or to be more precise dried mango!. Reaching the second checkpoint was something I will never forget. I lay in a tent, desperately sipping water, surrounded by people doing the same thing. It was like a war zone, not really what you expect for an ultra-run. We could all barely speak, everyone was resting and had been sick, however there was a shared togetherness and gallows humour. As well as lifting my mood, observing everyone gave me a real insight into resilience and how people react when things really are tough. I managed to drink plenty of water, adding some Tailwind in as well, and things started to pick up, approaching the next stage I started to think of food for the first time, and then when I arrived, I managed to eat a tin of mackerel, which tasted like heaven. I knew then I was back, as the stage went on it got even better as we got to night, as the sun went down the water was for the first time cooler. Finish! I finished the long stage and then went on to complete the final 5th stage. I was very proud to finish, especially as out of the 672 who started, I was one of only 353 who finished. In my tent we started with eight and only two of us completed. What got me to the finish As I’ve already alluded to, I was only ever going to finish. There was no way I was coming home without completing, and I never stopped believing this. I had also accepted it was going to be tough, it’s the MdS, it's hard, that's why I signed up, it was also going to be hot, it’s in the desert! I was going to be self-sufficient, and no one owed me anything. The organisers are brilliant, but they make no secret of that. They provide the water but you carry your own toilet paper, medical supplies, food, kit, sleep in a tent, and you get on with it. In my tent from the two of us that completed. I knew I would complete, and I knew Ali my fellow completer would complete from the moment I met him. Behind his calm smiley persona, I could see a quiet determination and steely resilience. My resilience comes from my background, growing up in a dysfunctional family on a tough council estate, meant that nothing was going to shock me or scare me. I knew when it got tough I could ‘dial up a demon’ or two as I like to call it. The voices from the past that said I couldn’t do it, powered me on when I was sick and staggering through sand dunes. Adversity either breaks you or it makes you strong! Why I loved every minute It was tough, but you have to get things in perspective, if you chose to do an event billed as the toughest foot race in the world you have to accept what comes with it. Not everyone is fortunate enough to be able to enter the MdS. If your lucky enough to be able to do the MdS remind yourself your one of the lucky few. Life after the MdS? A lot of people talk about how the MdS was life changing and it was certainly the case for me. I was an experienced runner, triathlete, and had done a few ultras and ironman etc before the MdS. When I started, I was an executive working in London. It transformed how I trained, combining running with strength training, and my diet. During the time from when I signed up to when I finished, I switched careers and qualified as a personal trainer and running coach. I now run my own fitness business. Just like in the MdS I’m my own boss now! If you need help with completing the MdS please contact me for my MdS completer coaching package
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