Before becoming a personal trainer, I worked in demanding corporate jobs in the City, involving commuting and international travel, and balanced this with family life and having three children. I always found time for my health and fitness, including taking on challenges, and I completed triathlons, Ironman, multiple endurance running events including ultras.
You don't have to take on a challenge, but my point is if I can balance corporate and family life and do an Ironman, then you can get to the gym and find time for cardio exercise as well.
My motto was always work on yourself first before you go to work for someone else. A lot of my colleagues didn’t, and would always say they didn’t have time, followed by a list of reasons why they couldn’t exercise. Consequently, they often also struggled with stress, relationship issues, and health problems.
Drill a bit deeper and these same people had time for other activities, but they weren’t prioritising their health and fitness. Its always easier to find time to do something easy, watch TV, look at your phone, stay in the office a bit longer when you probably don’t need to, go for a few drinks after work.
Finding time for exercise can mean getting outside in the cold or getting yourself to the gym. Its not easy, but it will transform your life for the better. So what's stopping you and how can you incorporate exercise into your life and balance with work and other demands.
Ask yourself?
So, if you thinking how can I fit exercise into my life, why can’t I be consistent with my exercise, ask yourself first: What’s going to make you feel best? What’s going to make you a better parent/spouse? What’s going to make you more successful in your career and balance stress?
Then ask what’s stopping me? What are my blockers? Write them down and challenge these perceptions and be creative how you can mitigate them.
So how can you get started and make exercise part of your life?
1. Set Goals - 'Goals are your North star they help determine your direction'.
They are your starting point, and need to include all aspects of your life, family, work, as well as fitness and health.
Divide your Goals up into long term, mid-term (3-5 years), short terms: one year, and then by month. Set goals that are your
Targets, ones you want to
Maintain, make them challenging but achievable. Also distinguish ones that are
Dreams i.e., a goal that you want to achieve, however is not entirely something within your control. Put a time frame or date on the ones that are time dependent.
2. Have a plan - 'A goal without a plan is just a wish'.
To achieve your goals you need a plan, its no-good waking up without a plan to exercise, your just stay in bed. Your plan needs to span several months, and then be broken down each week and auctioned for each day. Sure, plans change, and you need to be ready to adapt if you want to hit your goals.
3. Get up Early
- 'Discipline is doing what needs to be done when you don’t want to do it’.
Maybe you do this already? Or you exercise in the evenings, and it works, so you can ignore this!
Or you reading this saying I don’t do mornings? Sorry to dispel the myth, however I believe we can all do mornings, I don’t think there is any magic about why some people get up early and exercise and those that can’t. It’s just accepting that it’s not easy, forming a new habit, making a lifestyle change. You don’t have to sacrifice sleep, but you probably need to go to bed earlier!
The reality is its easy to go to bed late, and its harder to get up early, again it’s not easy - but it is possible – you can do it.
When my kids were young, I realised that going for a run after work, meant not supporting my wife, missing bath time and reading with my kids. So, I started going to bed earlier, setting my alarm earlier, and exercising before work and when my kids were up (well most of the time when they were very young!).
4. Schedule recovery/rest
Any exercise plan must have recovery and rest, so this needs to be part of any training plan. Recovery allows your body to adapt and avoid burn out. The harder your train the more you need to ensure you have time for recovery.
5. Get organised
If you are going to the gym early in the morning, get all your kit ready the night before, and the same if you’re going after work in the evening. If you’re going for a run in the morning, you want to get up and go before the negative part of your brain questions is this a good idea!
Coming back to your plan, organise the day/time when you’re going to exercise in advance. If it needs to change due to a work commitment e.g., business travel, ask your self can you exercise when your away.
I traveled all around the world in my corporate career, and I hardly ever missed a run, just take your trainers and kit. That run will clear your head for that presentation or tough meeting.
Summary:
Choosing the easy option doesn’t benefit you, taking the harder option does. If it’s easy it’s probably not going to be good for you! The harder option is harder at first, its uncomfortable, accept it's not easy, pursue, then before you know it, it will become a habit and part of your lifestyle.
If you prioritise your health and fitness, it will make you feel better, your have more energy and mental clarity, it will make you a better parent/spouse/colleague, help to manage stress, and ultimately your be more successful in your career.
If you need help to set health and fitness goals, create a training plan, improve your diet, and incorporate training into your schedule, please contact me for a free consultation.